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A Guide to Cremations

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At Jamieson Funeral Directors, we understand that the loss of a loved one is a profound and deeply personal journey. 

Cremation services offer a meaningful way to honour their memory, reflecting the unique life they lived. As more families choose cremation, it’s important to understand what it involves and how it can be a fitting tribute to your loved one.

Cremation has become an increasingly popular choice for many reasons, including its flexibility, cost-effectiveness and the diverse options it offers for memorialising the departed. 

Whether you’re considering a traditional service with a viewing or a more private, direct cremation, this guide aims to provide you with a comprehensive understanding of the process.

In this sensitive time, our goal is to offer support and guidance, ensuring that the service you choose aligns with both your needs and the wishes of your loved one. We’ll explore the various aspects of cremation services, from the practicalities and costs to the emotional and spiritual considerations, helping you make informed decisions during this challenging time.

Why Are Funerals Important?

In the journey of grief and remembrance, funerals hold a pivotal role. They are a fundamental part of honouring a life that was lived. It’s a moment to pause, reflect and celebrate, providing closure and comfort to those left behind.

A Time for Grieving and Healing

Funerals serve as a communal space for expressing grief. They allow us to share our sorrow, find comfort in togetherness and begin the healing process. The act of coming together, sharing memories and supporting one another is a powerful step in acknowledging the loss and moving forward.

Celebrating a Unique Life

Every life is unique and so is every funeral. It’s an opportunity to celebrate the individuality of the departed – their stories, achievements and the impact they had on those around them. A funeral can be personalised to reflect the personality, beliefs and preferences of your loved one, making it a deeply meaningful event.

Find out more about making funerals unique >

Upholding Traditions and Values

For many, funerals are steeped in cultural, religious or family traditions. They are a way to honour these values and provide a sense of continuity and connection to our roots. In times of loss, these traditions can offer great comfort and a sense of belonging.

Providing Closure

Saying goodbye is an essential part of the grieving process. Funerals offer a dedicated time and place for farewells, helping family and friends to acknowledge the reality of the loss. This act of closure is crucial in moving forward and finding peace.

Strengthening Bonds

In gathering to mourn, we also gather to strengthen bonds with family and friends. Funerals remind us of the value of relationships and the support systems we have in our lives. They bring people together, often rekindling connections and offering a network of support.

Read more about why funerals are important >

Introduction to Cremations

Cremation, as an alternative to traditional burial, has been embraced by many for its simplicity and flexibility. At Jamieson Funeral Directors, we provide a respectful and dignified cremation process, ensuring that every family’s needs and wishes are honoured.

Understanding the Cremation Process

Cremation involves the reduction of the body to its basic elements through exposure to intense heat. This process is carried out with the utmost respect and care in a specially designed cremation chamber. The result is the creation of ashes, which are then returned to the family.

Reasons for Choosing Cremation

The decision to opt for cremation can be influenced by various factors. 

For many, it’s a matter of personal preference or environmental considerations. Cremation is often seen as a more eco-friendly option compared to traditional burials. For others, it’s about simplicity and the desire for a less elaborate farewell. Additionally, cremation can be a more cost-effective choice, offering financial relief during a challenging time.

Flexibility in Memorialisation

One of the most significant advantages of cremation is the flexibility it offers in memorialising your loved one. The ashes can be kept in an urn, scattered in a meaningful place or even transformed into keepsake jewellery. This allows for a range of personalised and unique tributes, reflecting the individuality of the deceased.

Cremation and Rituals

Cremation does not preclude the holding of traditional funeral services. Many families choose to have a viewing or a ceremony before the cremation, providing a space for closure and togetherness. 

Others opt for a memorial service after the cremation, where the urn can be present. These rituals can be tailored to fit the beliefs, values and preferences of the deceased and their family.

At Jamieson Funeral Directors, we understand the importance of choice and personalisation in the cremation process. We are here to offer guidance and support, ensuring that the final farewell to your loved one is conducted with dignity and respect, in a way that honours their memory and provides comfort to those who grieve.

How Much Does a Cremation Cost?

Understanding the cost of cremation is crucial for families planning a final farewell for their loved ones. 

Cremation is often perceived as a more affordable option compared to traditional burials, but it’s important to be aware of the various factors that can influence the overall cost.

Basic Cremation Expenses

The fundamental cost of cremation includes the cremation process itself and the basic services of the funeral provider. 

This typically covers the transportation of the body to the crematory, the cremation process and the return of the ashes to the family. Prices can vary significantly based on location and the specific services offered by the provider.

Additional Services and Costs

Many families choose to include additional services with a cremation, which can affect the total cost. 

These services might include a viewing or visitation, a formal funeral or memorial service and rental of a casket for the service. Other costs can include the price of an urn for the ashes, any necessary permits and death certificates.

Direct Cremation: A Cost-Effective Option

For those seeking a more budget-friendly option, direct cremation is often the least expensive choice. 

This process involves cremating the body without any accompanying services or ceremonies. While it is a straightforward and economical choice, families can still choose to hold a memorial service at a later date if desired.

For more information, find out whether a direct cremation or traditional cremation is the right choice for you >

Planning and Budgeting

When planning a cremation, it’s important to consider all potential costs and budget accordingly. Many funeral providers offer package deals that can simplify the process and provide clear pricing. 

It’s also advisable to discuss all available options and their associated costs to make an informed decision that respects both the wishes of the deceased and the financial considerations of the family.

Want to find out more about costings? Take a closer look our funeral plans or read more about how much a cremation costs in our guide >

What to Do with Your Loved One’s Ashes After Cremation

After the cremation process, one of the most personal decisions is choosing what to do with the ashes of your loved one. This choice is deeply personal and can reflect the personality, wishes of the deceased and the needs of the family.

Keeping the Ashes

Many families choose to keep the ashes in an urn as a way to maintain a physical connection with their loved one. Urns come in various styles and materials, allowing for a personal touch. Keeping the ashes at home can offer a sense of closeness and comfort.

Scattering the Ashes

Scattering ashes in a place that was significant to the deceased is a popular choice. This could be a favourite outdoor spot, a family property or somewhere that holds special memories. It’s important to check local regulations regarding scattering ashes, as there may be restrictions in certain locations.

Burial of Ashes

Some families opt for burying the ashes in a cemetery plot, urn garden or even on private land. This provides a dedicated place where family and friends can visit and pay their respects. A memorial marker or plaque can also be placed at the site.

Creating Keepsakes

A portion of the ashes can be used to create keepsake items such as jewellery or incorporated into art, allowing family members to carry a part of their loved one with them. These keepsakes can be a comforting reminder and a way to keep the memory of the deceased close.

Sharing the Ashes

Dividing the ashes among family members is another way to remember a loved one. 

This allows each person to choose a personal and meaningful way to honour the deceased, whether it’s keeping them in small urns, scattering them in different locations or using them in memorial objects.

The decision of what to do with a loved one’s ashes is a significant and personal choice. It’s an opportunity to honour the deceased in a way that is meaningful to both them and those who loved them, ensuring their memory is preserved in a manner that resonates with their life and legacy.

For more suggestions, read about what you can do with ashes after a cremation >

How to Choose a Cremation Provider

Selecting the right cremation provider is a crucial step in the process of arranging a cremation service. It involves considering various factors to ensure that the services provided align with your expectations, budget and the wishes of your loved one.

Research and Recommendations

Begin by researching local cremation providers. Online reviews, testimonials and recommendations from friends or family can be invaluable in this process. 

Look for providers with a good reputation for professionalism, compassion and quality of service.

Services Offered

Different providers may offer a range of services. Some might specialise in direct cremation, while others provide more comprehensive options, including memorial services, viewings and various urn choices. Ensure that the provider you choose offers the specific services you require.

Pricing and Transparency

Understanding the cost and what is included in the price is essential. Look for providers who offer clear, upfront pricing without hidden fees. A reputable provider should be willing to provide detailed price lists and explain any additional costs.

Facility Visits

If possible, visit the cremation facility. This can give you a sense of the environment and the level of care they provide. During the visit, observe the cleanliness and organisation of the facility and how the staff interacts with clients.

Personal Interaction

The way a provider interacts with you can be a significant factor in your decision. 

During your initial contact, assess their level of empathy, willingness to answer questions and their ability to provide clear and helpful information. A good provider should make you feel comfortable and supported during this difficult time.

Choosing the right cremation provider is about finding a balance between compassionate service, professionalism and affordability. 

Take the time to research and ask questions to ensure that the provider you select is one that you can trust to honour your loved one in the way they deserve.

What Questions Will a Funeral Director Ask?

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When arranging a cremation service, a funeral director will ask several questions to understand your needs and preferences. These questions are essential for planning a service that honours the deceased and meets the family’s expectations.

Information About the Deceased

The funeral director will need basic information about the deceased, including their full name, date of birth and date of death. This information is used for official records and the death certificate.

Type of Cremation Service Needed

You will be asked about the type of cremation service you prefer. This includes choices between direct cremation, cremation with a viewing or funeral service, or a memorial service after cremation. Your decision will guide the planning process.

Personalisation and Special Requests

Funeral directors often inquire about any special requests or personalisation you wish to include in the service. This could involve specific music, readings or any rituals that are important to you and your family.

Handling of the Ashes

You will be asked about your plans for the ashes post-cremation. Whether you plan to keep, scatter or bury the ashes, the funeral director can provide guidance and options based on your choice.

Financial Arrangements

Questions regarding budget and payment options are standard. The funeral director will discuss the costs associated with the cremation service and any additional services you may require, ensuring transparency in pricing.

Contact Information

The funeral director will need contact information for the person responsible for making decisions and handling the necessary paperwork. This is crucial for coordinating arrangements and ensuring all legal requirements are met.

These questions are designed to provide the funeral director with a clear understanding of your wishes and to ensure that the cremation service is a fitting tribute to your loved one.

Learn more about the questions a funeral director will ask you >

A Respectful Goodbye

Cremation services offer a meaningful and personal way to say farewell to a loved one. Understanding the various aspects of cremation – from the costs to the different service options – can help in making informed decisions during a challenging time.

Ultimately, the way we choose to say goodbye is deeply personal. Cremation services offer the flexibility to create a farewell that is as unique as the life it commemorates. In these moments of reflection and remembrance, we find comfort, closure and a lasting tribute to those we have lost.

Planning a Cremation Service? We’re Here to Help

Deciding on a cremation service can be a deeply personal and sometimes overwhelming process. 

Whether you’re considering a direct cremation, a traditional service or something unique, we’re here to provide guidance and support every step of the way. Our experienced team is committed to honouring your loved one’s memory with compassion and dignity.

If you have questions or need assistance in planning a cremation service, please don’t hesitate to reach out. We offer a range of options to suit your needs and preferences, ensuring a respectful and fitting tribute to your loved one. 

Contact us today on 01179-564-796 or directors@jamiesonfunerals.co.uk to discuss how we can help you during this difficult time.


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Choosing Online

Choosing a memorial stone for a loved one is a deeply personal and significant decision. It’s a symbol of your love and respect for the unique personality of the individual who has passed away. Read on for help in how to navigate your options when making your choice.

Understanding your emotions

Before diving into the options, it’s important to acknowledge your feelings. Grief can be overwhelming and the process of selecting a memorial stone should be approached with care. Give yourself time and space to reflect on what will best honour the memory of your loved one.

Type of stone

Memorial stones come in a variety of materials, each with its own characteristics and symbolism. Also, consider the environment where the stone will be placed and the level of maintenance you’re comfortable with when choosing a material.

Granite

Durable and traditional, granite is a popular choice. It withstands harsh weather and retains its beauty over time.

Marble

Known for its elegant appearance, marble is a softer stone and can weather more over time.

Bronze

Often used for plaques and combined with other materials, bronze gives a timeless and classic look.

Personalising the tribute

Personalising a memorial stone makes it more than just a marker – it becomes a personal tribute to their life and the special bond you shared. Let’s have a look at some ways to do this.

Engravings and inscriptions

Pick words that meant a lot to your loved one or show who they were. This could be a quote they loved, a simple message, or their name and important dates. Also, think about the style of the writing – fancy, bold, or plain – as this can also show their personality.

Symbols and images

Icons such as religious symbols, flowers, or even custom imagery can add a unique touch. Think about symbols that held special significance or brought joy to your loved one, as these can be a powerful reminder of their passions and beliefs.

Shape and design

From traditional rectangles to more bespoke shapes like hearts or books, the stone’s shape can reflect the personality of your loved one. Also, the texture and finish of the stone can add another layer of meaning.

Remember to consider:

Size and budget

Memorial stones come in various sizes and designs, impacting the cost. Set a realistic budget and remember that the value of the stone lies in its sentiment, not its price. Work with your funeral service to find the perfect tribute within your budget.

Regulations and permissions

Check with the cemetery or memorial site for any regulations regarding size, material, or installation. Some places have specific guidelines that must be followed, so it’s important to be informed before making your final decision.

Selecting the perfect memorial stone

When a loved one dies, deciding on a memorial can be a tough emotional challenge, but we’re here to help. Our team at Jamieson Funeral Services will guide you in choosing designs, stones and inscriptions to honour your loved one, all while keeping your budget in mind.

Contact us on 0117 956 4796 to talk through your personal requirements and we can help ease the decision-making burden at this difficult time.


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Child Reading Book

Grief is a profound and complex experience, especially for children. Books can be a gentle and effective way to help these young minds understand and cope with the loss of a loved one. Here are five essential books that can support your child through their journey of grief:

1. “The Invisible String” by Patrice Karst

This book helps young kids aged 3-6 understand separation and loss in a simple way. It tells a story about an ‘invisible string’ connecting us to those we love, no matter the distance.

It’s a comforting idea for children dealing with loss, showing them that love keeps us connected even when we can’t see someone.

2. “The Paper Dolls” by Julia Donaldson

This book, great for 3-5-year-olds, is about a girl and her paper dolls having adventures together. But eventually, the dolls get torn. The story shows how memories last even when things are gone.

It teaches kids that memories of joy stay forever, even if physical things don’t. Written by the author of ‘The Gruffalo’, it’s very effective at helping children understand loss.

3. “Lost in the Clouds: A Gentle Story to Help Children Understand Death and Grief” by Tom Tinn-Disbury

This book tells a story about a young boy dealing with the loss of his mother. For ages 3 and up, it explores the various emotions children may feel when grieving, such as sadness, anger and confusion.

Offering an honest and gentle approach to explaining death and grief, it includes a non-fiction page that encourages conversation with your child through gentle questions. This makes it an invaluable resource for helping children understand and process their emotions.

4. “I Miss You: A First Look at Death” by Pat Thomas

This book is designed to help children ages 5-7 understand what death means and to deal with the feelings of loss and grief. It explains in simple terms why people die, addressing both the emotional and practical aspects of loss.

With a straightforward, factual approach, it can be particularly helpful for children who need clear explanations and a sense of understanding to help them through their grief. Special notes are also included at the back for parents and teachers, offering useful tips on how to use this book effectively.

5. “You Will Be Okay” by Julia Stokes

This book is a comforting resource for older children who have experienced the loss of a loved one. It offers reassurance and hope, focusing on the message that it’s okay to feel sad, but also that healing and happiness are possible in time.

The author is a clinical psychologist and founder of child bereavement charity, with years of experience of children going through grief. Targeted at ages 9-12, this book shares stories of bereaved people in order for children to relate and feel less alone in their grief.

Compassionate support with Jamieson Funeral Services

In your time of need, allow Jamieson Funeral Services to be a source of comfort and support. Contact us at directors@jamiesonfunerals.co.uk or call  0117 956 4796 to learn more about how we can help you navigate through your grief with care and dignity.


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If you’re planning a funeral for a loved one, it may be just as important to celebrate them as it is to remember them. One of the best ways to do so is by making their funeral unique to them.

From themes and colours to mementos and transportation, here are six ways that you can make your loved one’s funeral as quirky and individual as you’d like it to be.

6 ways to make a funeral unique

1. Theme the funeral

There are so many ways to theme a funeral, which makes this our top tip for staging a uniquely celebrative memorial.

Perhaps your loved one was a superfan of a band, or maybe they were known for a particular hobby. No matter what their passion was, you can theme a funeral in a way that they’d love.

2. Use colour

Black clothing may be the colour of choice for funerals, but it doesn’t have to be. You could set a colourful dress code, or just put a ‘no black’ policy in place.

Asking guests to wear specific colours can be a great way to celebrate the departed’s passion for a particular sports team.

You could even theme the flowers, coffin and even hearse to accommodate the colour scheme, too. If you want to really lean into colour, you could always organise a firework display to close out the ceremony.

3. Use music and video

If the deceased was a particular fan of film, music, or both, make their funeral more dynamic by integrating this passion into the service. Book a live band to cover a song they loved, or use video and audio clips at points throughout the ceremony.

4. Offer guests mementos

Providing guests with keepsakes that are personalised to the departed’s passions can be a fantastic way of celebrating them.

Trinkets like pins or charms are great, or mementos like t-shirts or hats could be a higher budget option. You could also offer guests packets of seeds, asking them to plant them in the deceased’s memory.

5. Personalise transport

See if the funeral directors you work with are able to offer more creative transport options. Choose a colourful option, a hearse with a quirkier design, or find out if you could make use of a more distinctive vehicle like a horse and carriage or campervan.

6. Personalise the coffin, casket or memorial stone

Customise the coffin, casket or memorial stone in keeping with the theme or colour scheme you’ve chosen for the service. Alternatively, encourage guests to bring written memories, drawings and farewell messages to attach to the coffin.

Depending on the situation, you could even provide guests with paint and coloured markers to draw directly on its surface. This would be a unique way to celebrate the deceased’s passion for arts and crafts.

Discover how we can personalise your loved one’s funeral

As experienced Bristol funeral directors, we appreciate the importance of celebrating your loved one in all their uniqueness. Contact us today to find out how we can stage a professional, compassionate funeral service for the deceased.


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A eulogy is the formal name for a speech given to commemorate an individual’s life. Eulogies are typically delivered at funerals or memorial services and are often given by a family member or friend of the departed.

There’s no one way of writing a eulogy. Whilst this flexibility can be freeing, it may also be intimidating. That’s why we’ve put together our top tips for writing a eulogy.

How do I write a eulogy?

Eulogies are given in tribute to the departed. As each individual is different, this therefore means that eulogies are going to be different, too.

With that said, there are some ways of making the process of eulogy writing a little easier.

Be personal

Remember, a eulogy is designed to honour and celebrate the departed. It’s typically a way of summarising their life, sharing fond memories and telling meaningful stories about them.

Writing a good eulogy is all about painting a picture of the person. Although you can detail their lifetime achievements and milestones, this is the purpose of an obituary. As such, when you’re writing your eulogy, it’s about being personalised to the individual in question.

Include a poem, quote, song lyric or reading

It’s always appropriate to include a quote that the departed loved or that summarises their character and personality.

Talk to other family members and friends

Ask those who knew their loved one best to provide thoughts, reflections and memories of them. Each person will have had their own relationship with the departed, and will therefore be able to paint a more colourful picture of the person. Plus, by asking for the assistance of others, it can help to reduce the stress of writing the eulogy on your own.

Keep it concise and structured

It’s easy to get carried away when giving a eulogy. Whilst this is a sign of the love held for the deceased, it can prolong a funeral service and risk attendees getting distracted.

Keep to a tight structure, and ensure that the eulogy doesn’t run for too long.

Be sensitive

Funerals can be emotionally taxing for everyone involved, but especially for the family and friends of the loved one.

Try to be sensitive to the needs of others when writing a eulogy. You’re trying to honour, celebrate and pay tribute to the departed – not to bring up old wounds, even accidentally.

Humour is fine, but approach it with sensitivity.

Get someone else to read it

If you’re worried about the eulogy, have someone else read over it. They can advise if it’s too long, too impersonal, or has moments that may be best left out.

Alternatively, if you’re worried about reading it aloud on the day, practice performing it in front of someone else. This will help your nerves, allowing you to focus on remembering your loved one.

Pay tribute to your loved one

Celebrate your loved one with a professional and personalised funeral. As experienced Bristol funeral directors, we understand how important it is to stage a service that honours the departed and accommodates your needs.


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