When it comes to the funeral for a precious loved one, you might feel unsure about what to write on a funeral flowers card.

Funerals can be an overwhelming and emotional experience, and so it’s very normal if you’re struggling to express your feelings. In this article, we’ll outline some ideas for what to write on a funeral flowers card for your Mum or Dad.
What to write on a funeral flowers card for Mum
Mums stand by us through the best and worst times of our lives – and when you lose your mum, it can be hard to convey everything she has meant to you. A funeral card for Mum should capture the essence of her life or reignite a special memory you shared.
Here are some ideas for what to write on a funeral flowers card for Mum:
- Thank you, Mum, for all the wonderful memories we’ve shared.
- You are with me in my heart forever, my special Mum.
- Mum, you are the reason I am here today. I love and cherish every moment we spent together.
- Rest peacefully, Mum. You are in my thoughts always.
What to write on funeral flowers for Dad
Dads provide everything from practical advice to a shoulder to cry on, so it’s important to find the right words to describe his impact on your life. When deciding what to write on funeral flowers for your dad, you might want to think of a lesson he has taught you or a special day you spent together. For example:
- To Dad, thanks for showing me the amazing person I could be.
- I’ll never forget the trips we made together, the stories you told. You’re in my heart forever, Dad.
- You’re the best Dad anyone could hope for. Thank you for everything.
- You will be greatly missed, Dad. With all my love.
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Supporting you through this difficult time
As well as deciding what to put on the card for funeral flowers, there are many other stages of the funeral process to plan for. Preparing for a funeral and wake can be a very overwhelming process for loved ones. That’s why our caring and supportive funeral directors are here to help you through – with a range of funeral packages to suit your needs.
If you’d like to learn more or want to discuss your requirements, contact us on 0117 956 4796.
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We understand that planning a funeral can be difficult, especially as you’re already dealing with the loss of a loved one. There are several questions that may arise during the process, not least how many people can attend a funeral.

This question has become particularly prevalent during the COVID-19 pandemic, where social distancing and maximum group sizes have come into play. In this post, we’ll discuss how many people are allowed at a funeral and how government restrictions may affect it.
How many people can go to a funeral?
First and foremost, we’ll provide a general answer to the question above. In other words, how many people can attend a funeral, pandemic aside. This depends entirely on the venue in question.
Crematoriums, places of worship or other venues will all have their own limits or recommendations for how many people can be seated. Some will allow extra attendees to stand, but it’s worth checking this – and the limits – with your funeral director. Take a look at some of the questions your funeral director will ask.
How many allowed at a funeral during COVID
Since March 2020 in the UK, things have been a little different. Unfortunately, we now have to adhere to ever-changing social distancing guidelines and limits in all walks of life – and funerals are no exception.
At various points over the past two years, we’ve seen the limit set at 30 people. This is the maximum number for tiers 2, 3 and 4 in England and Wales, although it does depend on the venue and whether they can accommodate 30 attendees with social distancing measures in place.
Additionally, the rule of six is used for wakes and other related events (like scattering ashes) in tier 4. You can find the latest guidance on how many can attend a funeral on the Government website.
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Guiding you through the process
At Jamieson, we know that venue limits and social distancing can be stressful to think about at such a difficult time. That’s why our funeral directors in Bristol remain caring and calm to guide you through the process and assist with how many people can attend, and make plans for those who can’t.
To talk more about your requirements, please don’t hesitate to contact our team today on 0117 956 4796.
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Deciding what to wear to a funeral can be overwhelming, given that you’re already going through a difficult time as it is. To make things easier, this post outlines some general rules for men and women. You can also read our guide on What to Bring to a Funeral Service.

What to wear to a funeral
First things first, the dress code of a funeral depends on the preferences of those arranging it. People closest to the person who has passed away may request that people wear their favourite colour or just something colourful to make the event less sombre.
If this is the case, you should follow the guidelines below using a colour other than black. However, if no dress code is mentioned, then black is the traditional colour of choice – although other dark, neutral tones like grey and navy are acceptable.
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What to wear for women
Colours aside, it’s important that your outfit choice for a funeral is conservative and respectful. Here are some tips:
- Dresses and skirts should be knee-length rather than revealing
- Dark trousers are also acceptable with a white blouse
- Wear smart, comfortable shoes
- Keep accessories like jewellery to a minimum
- Make sure makeup is muted
Funeral dress code for men
While men don’t have to stress about makeup or skirt length, there are still some important unspoken rules:
- A full suit is the traditional choice for men to wear at a funeral. You can remove the jacket if it’s too warm.
- Wear a long-sleeve shirt and make sure it’s ironed
- Choose an appropriate dark, neutral colour for your tie
- Wear smart black shoes and polish them beforehand
Need any more help?
If you have any more questions about what to wear or any other aspect of the funeral process, our Bristol funeral directors are on hand to help. We offer a full range of funeral services and packages to meet your needs, with gentle care and support every step of the way.
To find out more or discuss your requirements, call us on 0117 956 4796.
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